A funeral can bring out the best intentions in people but these intentions can often manifest themselves in the form of unwanted interference. Some people, such as close relatives, may think that having children attend a funeral is dangerous to their mental health; that the image of a dead relative or friend will be too distressing.

The most important thing for a parent in this situation is to know and understand their children. If the parent believes that they should view and attend the funeral service then they should proceed with that course of action. Do what you feel is right and do not let the disapproval of others sway you.

Adapted from: "Keys to Helping Children Deal With Death and Grief" by Joy Johnson, Barron's Educational Series Inc. 1999)