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Nancy Millar is known as Canada's Cheerful Tombstone Tourist. She's traveled all over the country exploring graveyards and talking to people, the result of which is Once Upon A Tomb, a history of Canada from the back end, as it were. It's history as she found it in graveyards.

This summer, she traveled throughout Canada. Here is her reporting of the graveyards of Nova Scotia.

Once Upon a Tomb - Nova Scotia
The Titanic Cemetery and Much More!

by Nancy Millar

Nova Scotia has so many interesting and important graveyards that it's hard to know where to start, or in my case as I traveled through the province, it was hard to know when to stop. Just one more, I would beg my cousin Judy who travelled with me. Just one more, and sure enough, there would always be one more just over the hill or around the corner. On the prairies, we had to drive for a while from graveyard to graveyard. Not so in the Maritimes. I had a wonderful time.


Among other things, Nova Scotia has Canada's oldest known grave marker. That's what it says anyhow, on a sign beside the grave of Bathiah Douglass in the cemetery next to the fort at Annapolis Royal. It's dated 1720. Canada wasn't even Canada then. It was just a nuisancy piece of wilderness for England and France to fight over, which is why Annapolis Royal existed, and why Bathiah was there with her soldier husband. Or so it is thought.

HERE LYES Y BODY OF BATHIAH DUGLASS,
WIFE TO SAMUEL DUGLASS
WHO DEPARTED THIS LIFE
OCTO THE 1ST, 1720,
IN THE 37 YEAR OF HER AGE.

The "O" in Douglass is carved above the "U" so that there's plenty of space for the death's head, the frightening image of a skull with empty eye sockets and a grim grin. These were common on grave markers in the eighteenth century, the church's equivalent of modern advertising. Find yourself looking at Bathiah's tombstone, the terrible visage grinning out at you, and you'd likely get yourself to church in a hurry and make your piece with God.

Bathia Douglass' grave marker – the oldest known in Canada – in Annapolis Royal, Nova Scotia

 

 

If the symbolism on Bathia's grave marker doesn't get the Biblical message across, then you might visit the Old Burying Ground in Halifax and check out the Adam and Eve stone. It tells the story of death and resurrection. On one end of the Bulkeley stone is carved Adam and Eve, looking guilty indeed as a snake winds its way up the trunk of an apple tree. On the other end, a winged figure with a trumpet hovers above a bony miserable looking skeleton. Once again, the message is clear - heaven awaits those who obey and believe.
Incidentally, the Old Burying Ground inHalifax has been designated a national historic site and with great reason. It is an open-air museum, a history book, a novel, and poetry. I could go on and on, but there's more in Nova Scotia. There are the Titanic graves in the Fairview Cemetery.

 

The Adam and Eve Stone in the Old Burying Ground in Halifax, Nova Scotia

 

It was raining buckets in the late afternoon when I got to the Fairview Cemetery, but it was exactly the right way to see those long rows of small grey box markers. Each one is dated April 15, 1912; each one represents the sinking of the unsinkable Titanic. Halifax was the nearest major port. Many of the bodies were brought there in the following few days and many were buried there. Everett Edward Elliott was one, a member of the crew, aged twenty-four. I think his mother must have written his epitaph for it so obviously seeks a reason for this terrible loss:

EACH MAN STOOD AT HIS POST
WHILE ALL THE WEAKER ONES WENT BY
AND SHOWED ONCE MORE TO ALL THE WORLD
HOW ENGLISHMEN SHOULD DIE

The Titanic Section of Fairview Cemetery,
in Halifax, Nova Scotia

As if Halifax hadn't had enough trouble from its surrounding waters, there was the problem with two ships that collided in the harbour the morning of December 6, 1917. The collision of two ships wouldn't have been the end of the world except that one of the ships was a munitions ship, full to the gunnels with bombs and ammunition for the war in Europe. When it hit the other ship and caught fire, it blew up and literally bombed Halifax. More than 1600 people died instantly, many were never identified. There's a big black flat marker in Fairview Cemetery that says:

TO THE MEMORY OF THE UNIDENTIFIED DEAD
VICTIMS OF THE GREAT DISASTER
DEC. 6, 1917

And now for something a bit more cheerful. In Nova Scotia, one hears a lot about the Hector. It was a leaky old trap of a boat that brought Scottish immigrants to Nova Scotia in 1773, and if you were one of the originals or a descendant of one of them, you take great pride in the Hector. More than likely, you mention it on your grave, as is the case with this epitaph in the Pioneer Cemetery in New Glasgow:

HERE LIES THE BODY OF COLIN MCKAY
WHO DEPARTED THIS LIFE
JAN. 30, 1804, IN HIS 74TH YEAR
AND HIS SON COLIN, 1772-1850
BOTH ARRIVED PICTOU 1773
ON FIRST TRIP OF THE BRIG HECTOR

Example of Death's Heads in Truro, Nova Scotia

While I was in Pictou, I went to the St. James Anglican Cemetery and found these words upon the grave of Peter D. Brodaire:

IN HIS LAST AND BEST BEDROOM

I thought the message was an original way of referring to his heavenly home but to my delight, I heard another interpretation in Calgary one day. After doing my dog-and-pony show at Glenbow Museum with slides and stories about graveyards across Canada, a couple approached me and asked if I had happened upon this very grave marker. Well, yes I had, I told them.

Did I know, they asked, that the words referred to the fact that Mr. Brodair had moved from boarding house to boarding house in Pictou, never satisfied with his accommodations? Always complained about his bedroom?

"No, I didn't know that," I said, "but I'm delighted to know it now."

See, that has been the fun of graveyard exploring. Little by little, I learn more about people, our history and us. It's like exploring for gold. You never know when a nugget is going to turn up.

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Nancy Millar's books about graveyards include Remember Me As You Pass By, (stories from Alberta graveyards) and Once Upon A Tomb (stories from Canadian graveyards.) Both are a combination of history, story and travel. They are available from many bookstores, see the Links provided, or from Deadwood Distribution, e-mail nemillar@shaw.ca. Her other books include Once Upon A Wedding - Canadian history through actual weddings; The Famous Five: Emily Murphy and the Case of the Missing Persons, and Once Upon An Outhouse. Also available from Deadwood.

 

 



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